I just finished attending the annual Twin Oaks Communities Conference
in Louisa VA. One of the most interesting ideas that surfaced for me
was a comment made by a thirtysomething woman who reported that people
in their 20s and 30s tend to be more drawn to community living for
reasons of economic sanity than enhanced social engagement. That was a
new perspective for me.
She suggested that it might be a generational difference, and perhaps she's right.
Certainly
there's more economic upheaval than 30 years ago (when I was a
thirtysomething). Millennials are seriously questioning why they should
take on school debt when it's not at all clear that a degree will lead
to meaningful work—or even work of any kind. I recently heard a
startling statistic: three years in the future 90% of people under 35 do not expect to be working in the same place they are now. They expect chaos.
Because
community offers a larger safety net, significantly reduced costs
through sharing, and perhaps the promise of meaningful work (depending
on the community), it makes sense that economics may be a bigger driver
today in attracting millennials. That said, community economics will
come in a package that will necessarily require greater social
skills to navigate than a traditional job. In a community (or
cooperative) business you can expect there to be as much attention given
to how workers and management function together as what gets
accomplished. That necessarily gets you into social territory, whether
you meant to go there or not.
It
is not enough to simply aspire to sustainable economics, where there's
agreement that business activity should be measured against the standard
of the triple bottom line (people, planet, and profit), or that work
should be well aligned with values and enjoyable. If you're in for a
penny (hunting better economics), then you're in for a pound (learning
better communication skills, and the ability to distinguish what's best
for me from what's best for the group)—because you won't secure the
former without mastering the latter.
Are
millennials approaching community living with better social skills than
my generation did? I'm not sure. I certainly believe they're capable of
learning them every bit as well as my generation did (or didn't), and
in the end what does it matter in what order someone is inspired to pick
up the skills needed to become more sustainable? The important thing is
that they did and that they came to understand how one set of skills
relates to another.
The point of entrée is significant from a marketing standpoint (maybe FIC
should be emphasizing more how intentional communities provide real
alternatives to the mainstream job market, rather than the authenticity
of friendships forged in the crucible of community living), yet doesn't
change the overall mix of what intentional communities offer, and just
serves to underline how much all roads lead to home. Wherever you start,
the trail will eventually bring you to all aspects, because, at its
best, community living is integrated living, where we aspire to close
the gap between our dreams and our everyday reality.
Are there any books about learning the social skills needed for living in a community that you would recommend?
ReplyDelete"people in their 20s and 30s tend to be more drawn to community living for reasons of economic sanity than enhanced social engagement. That was a new perspective for me."
ReplyDeleteNews to me also. Frankly, it doesn't make much sense, at least given existing cooperative communities in America. None that I have encountered are particularly prosperous nor do they celebrate wealth per se. Not sure what this person's definition of "economic sanity" is.
If we broaden the definition of "community" to include, say, worker-owned cooperatives, then we could say that joining a community can lead to financial security.